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Desire, Vibrators and Difficult Conversations
Here’s a 10 minute video where I answer a variety of sex & relationship questions. Sit back, get comfy. In this 10 minute video I answer a variety of sexuality and relationship questions. Topics include: – desire discrepancy (that’s psychobabble for when one person wants sex more than the other) and how to handle it Read More
Women over 50
I have many women over 50 in my clinical sexology practice, and I am one myself. On 60 Minutes, this is what Andy Rooney thinks about women near or over 50: “As I grow in age, I value women near or over 50 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: *A woman Read More
Dr SIX: Best Sex Therapist in Marin
I just found out that I was voted best sex therapist of 2023 by the Pacific Sun readers. Thank you! This isn’t the first time. I think it first happened in 2017. It’s always a welcome surprise and ego boost, even if there is a large underlying marketing component to the whole endeavor. It got Read More
Unconditional love, or Personality vs the person
Unconditional love, or Personality vs the person Personality is the assemblage of defense mechanism, sometimes armor, that we develop early in life as a result of intolerable emotional pain. It’s a way that we disconnect from our authenticity. These defense mechanisms become a personality structure, sometimes diagnosable via a label from the DSM (Diagnostic & Read More
Should I stay or should I leave?
In the 30 yrs since I became a sex therapist I have seen frustrated, sad, confused people who lie in bed at night next to a mate they feel estranged from, not knowing how to bridge the gap. They want to reconnect but are at a loss for how to do so. And then they Read More