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SIX Questions to Create Intimacy

Too often long term couples stop talking to each other, as in “How are you really?”, and new couples tread lightly for fear of being vulnerable. Next time you’re on a date with someone new, or not so new, try these SIX questions to ask each other: 1. What does friendship mean to you? 2. […]

SIX BASIC TRUTHS ABOUT SEX & RELATIONSHIPS

Every once in a while I tell my clients what I call ‘Basic Truths’ – stuff I don’t make up but that is inherently true. Here are a few of them: If you want to be seen, you have to show yourself. Makes sense. Similarly, if you want to be heard …you have to speak […]

SIX THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN DATING

SIX THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN DATING Whether you’re a serial dater, or you’re newly divorced after a twenty five year marriage, and whether you’re twenty five or sixty five, dating can be daunting. Here are a few tips: The other person is just as nervous as you are. We all want to be accepted and […]

Set your man up to win: be specific

Setting your man up to win might also sound like: “Sweetie, it would really make me happy if we had a date night at that French restaurant this Friday; I could wear my new dress and you’d look so handsome in that suit we got you last year. Would you be willing to make a reservation for […]