I recorded a really fun podcast out of Canada with Cindy Stibbard. It was totally unrehearsed, just like sex: you make a decision to engage with the person and see where it goes. It went well. It was fun, and I think it was good for both of us. Listen to it in your car, Read More
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SIX SECRETS TO SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY, & fee update
SIX SECRETS TO SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY Sexual compatibility has become the holy grail of relationship success. I see so many couples who end up best friends, love each other, but have no sexual chemistry. The key to finding a partner who is sexually compatible is in knowing yourself. Knowing who you are as an erotic being, Read More
SIX Sex Myths, & a Discount Offer
SIX because that’s my name and I had to pick a number. Sex myths abound and as we start off the year I thought I’d tackle a few of them which seem to persist in my practice. *If you don’t want to read about myths but do want to save money on my 8 session Read More
A soft place to land
While most of us may not look this good or young, sitting around in lacy underwear, drinking champagne by a warm fire, I picked this photo because it has the aura of a soft place to land. A relationship should be a soft place to land, for both partners. By that I mean a place Read More
Relationship stress during the holidays
Relationship stress during the holidays happens every year.
Every year, starting around Halloween, couples come to me with disputes over the upcoming holidays. Whatever your religion or traditions, the holiday season, with its twinkling lights, candles and festive cheer, can cast a unique glow on our intimate relationships.
Rekindling Intimacy
REKINDLING INTIMACY: It’s never about sex. This is the #1 reason people seek sex therapy with me: rekindling intimacy. In this short video I list the three most common scenarios that lead to the loss of intimacy in a couple, and how I help clients address it. I first diagnose what exactly the problem is, Read More