“It all comes down to the fact that we want to be desired,” says Claudia Six, Ph.D., sexologist, relationship coach and author of Erotic Integrity: How to Be True to Yourself Sexually. And that’s totally natural and integral to a healthy, satisfying sex life, says Six. (…) “Be crystal clear about how rough you want Read More
When your partner is trying to change you
I’m in Women’s Health again! When your partner is trying to change you: “If they’re ridiculing you in public or giving you constant, unsolicited advice around the clock about what you should or shouldn’t be doing, they’re not showing they care in a healthy, conducive way,” says Claudia Six, Ph.D., clinical sexologist and relationship coach Read More
I want more! Further reflections on my upcoming TEDx Wilmington talk
The other day I was watching a young singer on a variety show on French TV, a rising star, performing the most difficult song in his idol’s repertoire, in front of said idol. We saw him rehearse, witnessed backstage conversations about how anxious and excited he was, and eventually watched him perform. He hit the Read More
Dr Six in Glamour.com: “It’s the unexpected that keeps things interesting”
Start off outside the bedroom. If you want to make things more spontaneous, try initiating foreplay in the kitchen, office, garage, or anywhere else where you don’t typically do it, says sex and relationship coach Claudia Six, Ph.D. You can either lead your partner to the bedroom afterward or just have sex right then Read More
6 Things Happy Couples Always Let Go Of
Thanks Women’s Health for the quote: While there are many secrets to getting along with the love of your life during the ugly, tense, and smelly times, the number one thing you should embrace is the ability to just let stuff go. “You have to choose between being right or being happy,” says Claudia Six, Read More
Dr. Six on Communication
If he rolls his eyes when she speaks, or if she is stiff and passive during sex…they’re communicating! What are you communicating?