Set your man up to win: he wants to please you

Setting a man up to win is telling him what would make you happy, and inviting him to please you. Not demanding: inviting. When a woman demands, a man only has two choices: he can submit and comply (not a win), or he can rebel (not a win either). Inviting would be something like: “Honey, it would really help me out if you would take out the trash”. He wants to help, he takes out the trash, you’re pleased, he wins, everybody wins.