You don’t have to be in a Relationship to benefit from Relationship Coaching. Many single people like to see me in order to feel prepared.
I’m a firm believer that there’s someone, or several someones, out there for everyone, no matter how quirky you think you are.
As an impartial third party, and a psychosexual expert, I can support you to set yourself up for success.
Can’t find a mate? Feel terminally single?
- There are very good reasons why
- I can help
Get clear about what you want in a relationship.
- Must-haves, deal-breakers
- Learn quickly how to not waste your time on dates with people who aren’t a match for you
Why she/he won’t call.
- It’s not personal
- Learn about communication (See “How to Talk to Men” by Dr. Six, published in Common Ground, October 2009)
- I know that it feels very personal and vulnerable, putting yourself out there and possibly being rejected. But you never know what is going on with the other person and why they don’t call back. I guarantee you, it’s not about you.
Trouble getting a second date. You’re not alone.
- First dates are hard. Everybody’s on their best behavior, not totally authentic. Learn to be discerning about what you reveal. Sometimes people say too much, too little, too soon, drink too much, move in for the kiss too fast…
Trepidation about dating again?
- Newly divorced, relationship ended, been single for a long time…
- Let’s get you ready!
Not sure how to write a match.com ad that best represents you?
- I can give you honest and helpful feedback about your profile.
- Everybody likes walks on the beach and sitting by the fire. Be specific!
- Don’t lead with your sexuality if you want a long term relationship
- Don’t post photos of yourself with sunglasses on. Show yourself!
- I have lots more tips based on many years of experience.
Not sure which match.com responses to follow-up on?
- Learn how to determine who is a good fit for you, and which are red flags. Sometimes we fall back into old patterns that aren’t good for us, and it takes someone else to point those out to us.
Want a relationship, but not a traditional one?
- You’re allowed. You can create whatever relationship format works best for you.
- Learn how you can create that
Keep running into the same problems over and over?
- I can explain why
- Commitment phobic? (It’s not just for men)
- Serial monogamy got you down?
- Tired of one night stands? (Not really getting what you want there?) Let’s change that.
- Still hashing out what you didn’t resolve by getting divorced: power struggles, sex, money, kids?
- Reduce the stress, the heartache, …and the expense
I offer sex therapy services to people in Marin County and the San Francisco Bay Area from my San Rafael office. I also work via Skype or phone with national and international clients.
Ready for a relationship that works for you? Think you might want to work with me. Let’s get started!