Part of you wants to. But part of you doesn't want to lose control.
Can’t do it with a partner but want to?
Can’t quite get there by yourself either?
Afraid you'll make a weird face? You will! That's ok ~ we all do.
Orgasm is like dessert at the end of a meal. But you don't need to rush to get there and miss the rest of the pleasure. Take your time. Chances are you need to get out of your head and slow down. You can't orgasm unless you're in your body. So if you're thinking about stuff that's not helpful, fretting, worrying about it 'not happening', that makes it much harder to cum.
Ready to unlock the mystery of your orgasm? Think you want to work with me? Let's talk about it. Contact me
I offer sex therapy services to people in Marin County and the San Francisco Bay Area, and internationally, via phone or Skype.