Performance Anxiety for Women
Yes, women get performance anxiety too. It’s not just for guys. Women worry about getting turned on fast enough, not getting turned on, not coming, not doing it right…
Relationship Problems of Super-Smart People
Super smart people have a particular subset of relationship problems. They may lack empathy, miss social cues, or be quirky in ways that can create miscommunication.
Am I Normal?
Every single person who comes to me for sex therapy wants to know if they’re sexually normal. They’re asking the wrong question. What matters is whether what you’re doing works for you or not.
Desire Is Not the Same as Arousal
Desire is not the same as arousal. They are two separate things. Too often people think they have no desire and feel broken. You’re not broken! Desire is the willingness to get started and it can come from 3 different places. Watch this video for details.
Erotic Integrity Book Overview
Want to feel more confident in bed and in life? My book, Erotic Integrity, describes 3 easy steps to get you there.
Why I Became a Sex Therapist
So often people ask me how I chose this unusual profession, so here’s my life story in 3 minutes.
