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What Are Signs You’re You’re Not Being Yourself During Sex?

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You’re Having Sex When You’re Not Turned On If you have sex simply because your partner wants to and you’re not opposed, you miss out on getting in touch with your desire. “And you get burned out,” clinical sexologist and relationship coach Claudia Six, PhD, author of Erotic Integrity: How To Be True To Yourself […]

Things You Shouldn’t Share With Someone You’re Sleeping With

Your anxiety about the future It’s totally normal to have occasional panics over when you’ll reach the altar or cradle a newborn of your own, but it is better to seek comfort from someone who is emotionally invested in you, like a friend or family member. “Assuming a hetero fling, guys can get twitchy about […]

I’m in Best of SF in San Francisco Magazine!!

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Along with the tastiest taco, the greatest garage, the craftiest cocktail, and other bites, shops, bars, services that make living here all worth the trouble: best sex therapist in the North Bay!

Tips for Making Your First Wedding Anniversary Memorable

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Dance your first dance together. You know, that special one you probably practiced hundreds of times before the big day—crank up the music and hit that dance floor all over again (even if, this time, it’s in your 400-square-foot apartment). “Better yet, have it on your iPhone and surprise your spouse by playing it when […]