Dr Ruth paved the way for sexologists like me. I remember listening to her on the radio, with my mother. “(Women) can’t say or think “He loves me; he should know what I need.” They have to teach their partner what they need.” Amen to that! Part of Erotic Integrity is embracing who you are Read More
Confusing vulvas and vaginas
Vulvas, people! Vulvas!!! Not “vaginas”! Unless you have a speculum and a flashlight, a la Annie Sprinkle, you will never see a vagina! The outside lips are the vulva – the inside, past the gate, the warm dark wet part that you like to slide into, is the vagina. This is a pet peeve of Read More
The Erotic Integrity book cover is ready!
The book will be available for purchase in a few months. Stay tuned. Be sure to join the mailing list for advance notice.
Sexual Compatibility
While it can be very painful to feel poorly matched sexually with your lover, many people are quick to claim poor sexual compatibility. Compatibility is not the same as mismatched libidos, which is about appetite for sex rather than what turns you on. Sexual compatibility has a lot more to do with people’s willingness to Read More
Dr. Claudia Six Busts a Sex Myth
Sexologist Claudia Six busts a sex myth about desire versus arousal on Sexpert Media. Spoiler: they’re not the same thing.
Sexual Desire versus Arousal: It’s not the same thing!
Sexual desire is not the same thing as sexual arousal