FOSTERING A HEALTHY ATTITUDE TOWARDS DESIRE: my Australian podcast

I was on a podcast out of Australia recently. Grab a beverage and spend 50 informal minutes with me. I haven’t done an interview like this before. I talk about: my lens on the world as a child how I developed a positive outlook on sexuality personal questions about my spare time communication during doggie […]
What would a HAPPY SEX LIFE give you?
What would a HAPPY SEX LIFE give you? I recently posed this question to my 6000+ Facebook friends and got a surprising mix of answers. The somewhat spiritual responses: a “complete “knowing” of another human being, a ”trust so deep that I want to surrender”, “the feeling that my soul is home”, an expression […]
It’s never about sex
I’ve been saying for years that it’s never about sex. So recently I changed my tagline. Let me explain. People think that sex is easy, happens naturally, and that when there’s a glitch, it’s about the sex. The problem isn’t getting the penis into the vagina (assuming a hetero model for the sake of this […]
Being Vulnerable is the KEY to your sex life
“Let’s Talk About SEX” podcast
I recorded a really fun podcast out of Canada with Cindy Stibbard. It was totally unrehearsed, just like sex: you make a decision to engage with the person and see where it goes. It went well. It was fun, and I think it was good for both of us. Listen to it in your car, […]
Relationship Quotes You Can Apply to Your Own Life

“It takes half as long as the relationship lasted, to get over it after the breakup.” In other words, if you were together four years, it’ll take you two years to fully recover. People don’t like to hear this, but Claudia Six, Ph.D., clinical sexologist and relationship coach, says it’s true. “You may lick your […]