Men are like microwaves, Women are like crockpots

In terms of sexual arousal, typically men are like microwaves and women more like crockpots. Bad design but there you have it. Which appliance are you? It’s important to note that low desire is not a label, a permanent diagnosis, or a flaw – it’s a position in the system. Every couple is a system, […]

Sex drive after 40

I get asked a lot about waning sex drives with age. This happens more with women. It doesn’t have to be so. I try to stay away from “should” and the notion that there are standards to be met. What’s important is for someone to be happy with their level of sex drive regardless of […]

Estrogen, Menopause & Breast Cancer

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I see so many older women suffer unnecessarily with low libido, painful intercourse and hot flashes due to misinformation re estrogen replacement therapy. Their relationships and partners suffer too. Sexuality is part of feeling alive. Make 2020 the year of better sex for yourself. Working with clients with Menopause & their partners Read this article […]