It got me thinking about how many of us are spending all this money without getting to the cause of how we get in our own way. Just like numbing out in various ways can be a distraction but doesn’t get at the root of trauma. Dating apps can be a huge but ineffectual distraction.
I believe there’s more value and effectiveness in:
– understanding why our past choices made sense but were not a long-term fit
– finding our voice in asking for what we want, sexually and lifestyle-wise
– clearing past traumas that hold us back.
That’s what I’ve done for myself. It’s hard work. And that’s what I help my clients do.
