Relationship stress during the holidays

Relationship stress during the holidays happens every year.

Every year, starting around Halloween, couples come to me with disputes over the upcoming holidays. Whatever your religion or traditions, the holiday season, with its twinkling lights, candles and festive cheer, can cast a unique glow on our intimate relationships.

Rekindling Intimacy

REKINDLING INTIMACY: It’s never about sex. This is the #1 reason people seek sex therapy with me: rekindling intimacy. In this short video I list the three most common scenarios that lead to the loss of intimacy in a couple, and how I help clients address it. I first diagnose what exactly the problem is, […]

Feeling better vs better feeling

Good therapy helps you learn the difference between feeling better vs being better at feeling. We all want to feel better. Who wouldn’t? But that is a short sighted and short term goal. Ultimately the road to freedom and more ease is to become better at feeling. Along these lines I like what the Presence Process has […]

Someone You Loved

  …This all or nothing really got a way of driving me crazy I need somebody to heal Somebody to know Somebody to have Somebody to hold It’s easy to say But it’s never the same I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain How many of us have been or […]

Desire, Vibrators and Difficult Conversations

Here’s a 10 minute video where I answer a variety of sex & relationship questions. Sit back, get comfy. In this 10 minute video I answer a variety of sexuality and relationship questions. Topics include: – desire discrepancy (that’s psychobabble for when one person wants sex more than the other) and how to handle it […]