Good therapy helps you learn the difference between feeling better vs being better at feeling. We all want to feel better. Who wouldn’t? But that is a short sighted and short term goal. Ultimately the road to freedom and more ease is to become better at feeling. Along these lines I like what the Presence Process has Read More
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Someone You Loved
…This all or nothing really got a way of driving me crazy I need somebody to heal Somebody to know Somebody to have Somebody to hold It’s easy to say But it’s never the same I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain How many of us have been or Read More
How to spend your money in the search for love
That’s what I’ve done for myself. It’s hard work. And that’s what I help my clients do.
Desire, Vibrators and Difficult Conversations
Here’s a 10 minute video where I answer a variety of sex & relationship questions. Sit back, get comfy. In this 10 minute video I answer a variety of sexuality and relationship questions. Topics include: – desire discrepancy (that’s psychobabble for when one person wants sex more than the other) and how to handle it Read More
Women over 50
I have many women over 50 in my clinical sexology practice, and I am one myself. On 60 Minutes, this is what Andy Rooney thinks about women near or over 50: “As I grow in age, I value women near or over 50 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: *A woman Read More
Dr SIX: Best Sex Therapist in Marin
I just found out that I was voted best sex therapist of 2023 by the Pacific Sun readers. Thank you! This isn’t the first time. I think it first happened in 2017. It’s always a welcome surprise and ego boost, even if there is a large underlying marketing component to the whole endeavor. It got Read More