Watch yourself masturbate
Masturbating in front of a mirror will help you feel more confident during sex, since you’ll see what your partner sees—which is pretty freaking hot, says Claudia Six, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist, relationship coach, and author. So get down with yourself where you can see your whole body. “Watch how your body moves in response to your touch. Watch your face as you get aroused and orgasm. Own it!” says Six.
Orgasm with your eyes open
Looking into your partner’s eyes mid-orgasm can help the two of your feel more connected and erotic, says Six.