I just read your excellent article in the current Common Ground. You really nail it. Your paper is clear, concise, and challenging. Your thinking is spot on and, to me, this is your best writing ever. You seem to offer an insight that is counter-intuitive … it’s so easy to blame others and feel powerless … but it can be empowering to know about an alternative. You clarify whose stuff is whose, and you offer a way to get unstuck.