See how a sexological bodyworker and I have similar answers to the same questions, despite having slightly different professions. My work is more insight oriented , hers is more hands-on Read More
communication
Dr. Six on Communication
If he rolls his eyes when she speaks, or if she is stiff and passive during sex…they’re communicating! What are you communicating? Read More
Relationship Problems of Super-Smart People
Super smart people have a particular subset of relationship problems. They may lack empathy, miss social cues, or be quirky in ways that can create miscommunication. Read More
Sat 4/2: World Autism Day
This is not sexy, but today is World Autism Awareness Day. Asperger is on the Autism spectrum, and I have a lot of what I call “aspy flavored” clients, who struggle with a particular set of relationship and sexual issues. I have a particular fondness for aspy flavored people, partly because they fall through the Read More
Ladies: invite – don’t demand
This NY Post articles tells women to demand better sex, but while it’s an empowering stance, it can totally backfire, and not get you what you want. When you demand something of a man, he has two choices: to comply which is submissive, or rebel and pull away. Neither is going to get you a Read More
Talking about sex with parents
Parents talking to their kids about sex is a mark of EROTIC INTEGRITY: authentic communication about sexuality. Raising kids with Erotic Integrity entails making choices about modeling behavior as a sexual being, what to call the ‘down there’ parts, and when to get candid about birth control and safe sex. Every parent has to make Read More