Boring Sex There’s no such thing as sexual boredom. When sex gets boring in a relationship, it’s usually because uncomfortable feelings are coming up that people don’t want to feel. The brain does this nifty trick of bypassing uncomfortable feelings and going straight to “boredom.” We tell ourselves that we are experiencing sexual boredom so Read More
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Calling all the single men
Psychology Today just published an article about how most of the singles app users these days are single men rather than women, and women’s standards have gone up, thus requiring all those single men to up their game if they want to find romance. Sounds like good news to me. More emotionally equipped men and Read More
The Truth About Having an Orgasm After Menopause
I was recently interviewed for Giddy, a health focused website, about a topic that is dear to my heart: the sexual wellbeing of menopausal women. Here are a few of my choice quotes from the piece: “After going through menopause, women may also experience difficulty orgasming. It’s one of those secret side effects of menopause Read More
Judge gives go-ahead for Mexico’s first polyamorous marriage
While rights in the US are being removed, Mexico is exhibiting great open-mindedness, and allowing a poly marriage. That’s a marriage between THREE people who are in a relationship. Read More
International Kissing Day
Pucker up! Today is Kissing day. Any day is good for kissing really, As a French woman, I highly advocate kissing. Here are some thoughts I shared with a Newsweek reporter on the subject. What are the main kissing techniques? How many are there and what are they? I’m tempted to say that there are Read More
How Sexual Trauma Affects Relationships
It’s not about what happened to you; it’s about what happens inside of you as a result of what happened to you. Read More