When New Year comes around people tend to re-examine their diet, their exercise level, their spending habits…But how many actually re-evaluate their relationship? Few. Ask yourself:
- Is anything missing for you?
- What do you want more of? Less of?
- What do you want to create for yourself?
- Are you willing to be vulnerable to make that happen?
For 2016, I invite you to have a State of the Union conversation, first with yourself, and then with your beloved if you have one.
Kevin Miller says
I have been pondering what has been missing for me for the past couple of years. I am a 65 year old male and have always considered myself heterosexual, that is until now. It seems my sexual preference has changed over the last few years, gradually at first until I now know I am exclusively attracted to other men. I am not sure where this will take me, but was wondering if this is too unusual. That is, for a person’s sexual orientation to change when they get older.
Claudia Six says
Sorry, I only just saw your post.
Yes, sexuality evolves over the course of a lifetime. It is not static or etched in stone. Your sexual orientation shifting is fine and not unusual. Explore it safely and enjoy yourself.
I hope this helps.