Desire is not the same as arousal. They are two separate things. Too often people think they have no desire and feel broken. You’re not broken! Desire is the willingness to get started and it can come from 3 different places. Watch this video for details.
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This NY Post articles tells women to demand better sex, but while it’s an empowering stance, it can totally backfire, and not get you what you want.
When you demand something of a man, he has two choices: to comply which is submissive, or rebel and pull away. Neither is going to get you a good lay, casual or marital. You have to instead invite: let him know he’s going to get a “yes” so that he wants to give you what you are asking for in bed (or on the coffee table – wherever you are “doing it”). “Ooh baby, that feels so good. I’d love it if you used your fingers too” (specify where).
Want to feel more confident in bed and in life? My book, Erotic Integrity, describes 3 easy steps to get you there.
I’m so excited! Readers’ Favorite wrote me a really wonderful review for Erotic Integrity!
So often people ask me how I chose this unusual profession, so here’s my life story in 3 minutes.
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