by Dr. Claudia Six
Published in Common Ground
Somebody’s got to do it, to get the show on the road. Somebody has to go out on the skinny branches and risk being rejected. Somebody simply has to go first, to make things happen. If sexual congress is going to take place, someone has to reach out towards the other person. There’s no way around it. When I ask my clients who initiates, they often don’t know…or they think they both do. Sometimes one person thinks they’re the one who initiated, while the other person wants the credit for it.