Women have more to lose by dating the wrong person, and so are better at accepting a relationship is over and selecting a new partner, says a new study on post relationship grief Maybe that’s because women grieve & men replace! There’s nothing like stewing in your own juices and licking your own wounds for Read More
Archives for August 2015
Dr Ruth
Dr Ruth paved the way for sexologists like me. I remember listening to her on the radio, with my mother. “(Women) can’t say or think “He loves me; he should know what I need.” They have to teach their partner what they need.” Amen to that! Part of Erotic Integrity is embracing who you are Read More
Confusing vulvas and vaginas
Vulvas, people! Vulvas!!! Not “vaginas”! Unless you have a speculum and a flashlight, a la Annie Sprinkle, you will never see a vagina! The outside lips are the vulva – the inside, past the gate, the warm dark wet part that you like to slide into, is the vagina. This is a pet peeve of Read More